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Friday, April 17, 2009

What, I can still be Thankful on Friday...

1. Good friends. I had an evening of reconnecting with a great friend. Some things have changed in our lives and our friendship is having to bend, but it will! That's what best friends are for!

2. 70 degree weather, the weekend off work, lots of family coming into town, and Hank Jr. tickets - sounds like a great time! Oh yeah and it's my life! :)

3. God is so good! I don't think that requires any explanation, it's TRUTH!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

If I had a prize...

ANGIE would win it. Altough I am not quite sure that making 4 guesses is ligit. The answer is apologize...this should be a reminder to all of us, whether single or married.

Wacky Wednesday Trivia

Married couples do this twice as much as singles?
Keep in mind that I strive to have a clean blog, so you should know that your first thought is probably wrong. But let me know your guess!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Ten on Tuesday...

1. Last week was a crazy one, sorry I haven't blogged for a week! We had Friday off so that seemed to have made the work week go so much faster.

2. Friday I went to the oral surgeon, after 3 hours in the chair and minor surgery....THE CROWN HAS BEEN PLACED! Now of course, it is temporary, it's just my luck. But they want to make sure that the gum heals before they attach it permanently. I have an appointment April 29th to have it finished. Praise God...for it being (almost) done and for vicodin! :)

3. Easter was great! I went to NWUMC, so Mom & Dad would have 3 of their 4 kids with them at church. Then Mike and I went to my parents for lunch. Mom threw a great little party: Grandma, Pap, Lex, Drew, Mom, Dad and Shirley (Mom's friend from church) were all there. Judo made chicken and noodles....so delicious. Since I was taking pain meds, I basically ate and slept. Best Easter Ever! It was nice to relax and remember the reason we were together: AN EMPTY GRAVE!

4. This coming weekend is Pier Pong, AKA cousins weekend at the cottage! I am so pumped to spend the weekend with family -- we are going to build a new pier for the cottage and get some Spring Cleaning done. It seems like the weather is going to cooperate very well and we have some fun planned in there too!

5. Life changes...People change...God, well He NEVER changes. What a blessing that is?! And man I have been reminded of this lately. I have felt different parts of my life being ripped out from under me and have had to rest solidly in the hands of my Heavenly Father. I am trusting that He knows exactly what He is doing. I know that in Him I can become just who He had in mind.

6. Angie's questions... uh, of course I would love a green chair that I don't have to bring a blanket to cover because it's so dirty; I don't know why you didn't know about my blog, my bad?; When Mike isn't around I: read, workout, help with Women's Ministries at NWUMC, spend time with my sweet roomie, book club, spoil my pets, blog stalk, talk to long distance friends from college; it is easy to understand why both you and Kayla love Brothers & Sisters, it is such an amazing show!; if I ever see something that you need :) I will do my best to remember that you are open to random gifts.

7. Mike and I are going to see Hank Jr. this weekend! I am pumped to see a classic country artist :) Should be tons of hillbilly fun!

8. I have actually been really busy at work lately. It's nice, I feel like I am accomplishing lots!

9. Seriously, I am tired of rainy, windy, cold weather. Can we get some summer around here...I would even be happy with some warm spring weather.

10. After a blog discussion last night with some girlfriends, I decided to see if I could get most of my readers to post a comment. If I had something to give away, I would...but try not to get too excited Shannon, I don't. So just let me know you are out there in the cyber world. And you should post a question so I can have something to post about next Tuesday.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Ten on Tuesday...

1. My new favorite yogurt is Key Lime Pie: it tastes delicious and is a pretty shade of green.

2. It snowed yesterday and is trying to snow today....and it's April. That's really not ok!

3. I have the cutest pets in the entire world! Phoebe(3), Tucker(2), and Izzy(2). Technically, Isabelle is Lexi's cat but since for the two years she has been alive she has lived with me for the better part of 18 months, I pay for her, and deal with her kittenisms that tend to knock stuff over; I'm gonna say she's mine.

Phoebe and Tucker


Izzy

4. Some favorites: the color Yellow, Fridays, Charlotte's Web, To Kill A Mockingbird, Hoosiers (the movie, needed to clarify that one!! and I guess for the record BOILER UP!), Brothers and Sisters (the TV show although my brothers and sisters are some favorites of mine, too), Eagles (greatest band of all time!), Sugarland (current musical obsession!), getting someone a present that I know they will love

5. Some not-so-favorites: Getting up in the morning, cleaning paint brushes after painting, driving long distances alone, double standards, entire groups of people that want to pretend that something didn't happen and everything is fine - when we all know the truth (generally speaking, of course), you know when you have a bunch of weekends free and then there is one weekend that you have to pick from two things, yeah I don't like that...

6. Some dreams: SUMMER - I can't remember does it actually get hot here - it's been so long, having a family, to be a good steward of my personal finances, a quiet tropical vacation

7. I hope you are all spending some time this week getting ready to CELEBRATE this weekend...too often we get wrapped up in family, food and scheduling plans and we totally forget why we are doing those things. Christ died on the cross for all of us, and being the Awesome God HE is...He didn't stop there, HE rose from the dead to conquer death. If that isn't something to celebrate, I guess I don't really understand "celebration".

8. Michelle cut my hair. Really that's about all I can say for that, except I LOVE IT!

9. I realize that if you struggle to think of ten things a week about your life ...that other people might care about -- you really need to get out more. I mean I can think of some other things but I am just not ready to lay them all out here yet. Maybe someday.

10. I'm aware that I pretty much made 9 and 10 the same but apparently for me 10 is a lot, so we are going to try something new...if you have a question or topic (appropriate of course) for me to post on please leave it in the comments or email it to me - monica-wilson@hotmail.com

Friday, April 3, 2009

Started out a frustrating Friday...

Well for the 4th time in a month, this morning I heard the words, "Sorry Monica, not today. We are gonna have to wait." I wanted to ball these words up and shove them right back into my dentists mouth, where for all I care they could stay forever. Instead of more penicillin, this time he is referring me back to my oral surgeon. I should find out Monday or Tuesday when I can get an appointment with him.

When I left the office, I was telling Mike all the frustrations that this caused...money (lots of money), having to take off work, next Friday will be three years I have been waiting, the list goes on...

THEN -
Mike was of course amazingly supportive and tried to make me happy. Then I talked to my dad and he said, "It's just money, it's not your fault to take off more work, and at least you are healthy...it's frustrating and depressing but it's not terrible."

I have tried to spend the rest of the day in a manner of thankfulness. So many people complain (including myself this morning) about things that are frankly insignificant. And trust me, I could go on and on about why this dental visit is far from insignificant. But in the scheme of my entire life this is just a little thing. Whenever I get frustrated about it, I like to remind myself that one day (hopefully soon) I will completely forget the things that have been an unending bother to me the last three years. Then I will try to remember what this time was like.

I have sat at my desk and been thankful, so thankful, for a job. I drove my car to get an oil change and spent the driving time thanking God for a nice car and the money (barely, but it was there) to take care of that car. I have been talking to Michelle and Trinia lots this afternoon, and thanking God for good friends. Through email the Wilson cousins are planning a work weekend at the cottage, it sounds like business but more fun than anything...they make me thankful for my family and good laughs. We will have lots of fun, delicious beverages, great music, and maybe get a little work done that weekend. :)

I am thankful...so thankful for the blessings I have and I know when it's time this present trouble shall also pass....is it wrong to hope that it's next week? I would even go to the oral surgeon's office tomorrow if he happened to be working (HA! yeah right!)...I guess for now it's more patience and thankfulness!

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Thankful Thursday

I am thankful for:

1. Mike coming home today. He has been in Pennsylvania since Tuesday.

2. My job. When I watch the news and read the paper, I realize just how smoothly I sailed through a really tough economic times. I lost my job in December, and PRAISE GOD I was hired on January 12. It has been a very humbling and trusting in God season of my life.

3. Laughter. We crack up all the time here at United Way...and I love it! It had been a long time since I enjoyed work in the day to day, and the atmosphere here is so great!